My Philosophy

This is MY PHILOSPHY regarding our lives as humans. It is what my work is built upon:

This is the AXIOM of my work:
“You are not striving to become a BETTER YOU! No! You are striving to become better at BEING YOU!”

  • We are ALL “neurotically normal“. Everyone has neurosis but not all of us are necessarily living neurotically all the time.
  • We ALL have within ourselves the resources for change.
  • You are NOT broken or abnormal.  Your mind is functioning exactly how it was intended to function as a merciful reminder that there is something that needs to be restored or healed.
  • All behavior has a purpose.
  • See clients through the lens of normalcy not pathology (not broken, strategy etc.).
  • I work with people & do NOT treat anything Movement is life! (useful vs. useless).
  • “We live in the light of reflected action. The things that happened to us in the past are still happening to us every day.” (Dave Elman)
  • We are NOT our adaptive self (enneagram personality type)
  • We’re living in the trance of our BELIEFS of our personality!treatment for anxiety & sex addiction mn
  • My work is client centered – I utilize what my client gives me; it’s like therapeutic dance
  • Change can happen quickly – (Brief change work)
  • We are socially interconnected!
  • Encouragement should be at the heart of all change work/therapy!
  • Feelings are NOT evil but are KEY TO THE CHANGE YOU DESIRE!